How My Family Helped Me Manage Life from a Hospital Bed

While I was stuck in a hospital bed, I had countless errands that I needed to run. Thankfully, I had my parents to check off all my to-do's. Here are only some of the errands I am forever grateful they could manage for me.

HOSPITAL MEMORIESSUPPORTING LOVED ONES BLOG

Alysa Olson

6/28/20242 min read

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Introduction

Life can throw unexpected challenges our way, and sometimes, we find ourselves in situations where we need to rely on the support of our loved ones. I recently experienced this firsthand when I was stuck in a hospital bed. With children who needed to go places and a husband attempting to work full time, it was a challenging time for all of us. Thankfully, my parents flew in to help take care of the kids and run all my errands. Here are some of the personal errands they helped me with that you might consider offering to support your loved one in a similar situation.

Picking Up and Returning Laundry

One of the first things my parents did was pick up my dirty laundry and return it clean. Being in a hospital bed means you can't just pop into the laundry room whenever you need to. Having fresh clothes made a significant difference in my comfort and well-being. If you have a loved one in the hospital, offering to take care of their laundry can be a huge help.

Checking the Mailbox and Bringing Packages

Another essential task my parents handled was checking my mailbox and bringing me any Amazon packages that arrived. It's easy to forget how important mail can be until you can't get to it yourself. From bills to personal letters, staying on top of mail is crucial. Plus, having my favorite items from Amazon delivered to my hospital bed lifted my spirits.

Voting from the Hospital Bed

One of the more unique tasks I needed help with was voting. I had my mail-in ballot brought to me so I could fill it out, sign it, and have it mailed. Yes, I voted from my hospital bed! Civic duties don't stop just because you're in the hospital, and having someone assist you with such tasks can be incredibly empowering.

Handling Important Paperwork

Finally, my mom helped with some critical paperwork. I needed my FMLA paperwork, which the doctor had filled out, to be signed in wet ink and returned to the HR department within a specific time period. My mom ended up delivering it the day it was due. Ensuring that important documents are handled properly can relieve a lot of stress for someone confined to a hospital bed.

Conclusion

Having a support system in times of need is invaluable. My parents' willingness to step in and handle these personal errands made my hospital stay more manageable. If you have a loved one in a similar situation, consider offering to help with these tasks. It may seem small, but it can make a world of difference to someone who can't do these things themselves.